Squirting – Myth and the Explosive Intensity of Female Ejaculation

Squirting, also known as female ejaculation, is one of the most fascinating and at the same time most discussed topics in the world of sexuality, BDSM and fetish. For many, it is an erotic highlight that lifts ecstasy to a new level, for others it is a mystery full of myths, insecurity and taboo.

What Is Squirting Actually?

During squirting, a clear to slightly milky fluid is released from the urethra – sometimes as a gentle flow, sometimes as a powerful jet that drenches the whole body or the bed. This fluid does not primarily come from the bladder, but from the paraurethral glands (Skene’s glands), which are considered the female prostate.

They fill up during intense arousal and empty explosively when ecstasy reaches its peak.

The Appeal of Squirting

Why is this form of sexuality so fascinating?

Intensity & Liberation – Many women describe squirting as a particularly intense climax that is connected with a feeling of liberation. It is a letting go – both physically and emotionally.

Breaking Taboos & Loss of Control – Socially, “getting too wet” is often seen as embarrassing or “too much”. But exactly this loss of control, this sudden overflowing, is what makes it so sexually arousing.

Men’s Fascination: Everything Gets Wet – For many men, the appeal is not only in the orgasm itself, but in the visible, almost exaggerated reaction of the woman. The bed is soaked, clothes, skin and sometimes the entire room are covered with fluid. This “flooding” is often perceived as the ultimate confirmation of male dominance and sexual performance – a visible proof that he has pushed his partner beyond her limits.

Visual and Auditory Experience – The splashing, squirting or dripping sounds, combined with the visual explosion of fluid, intensify the erotic perception enormously.

Paths to Squirting

Squirting rarely happens by chance – it requires technique, trust and the right mental state.

G-spot Stimulation – The most common method. Strong, rhythmic pressure on the G-spot often leads to the release of fluid.

Combination of Fingers, Toys and Penetration – Especially fast movements combined with stretching or deep penetration increase the chance of a squirting orgasm.

Psychological Relaxation – Many women need to learn to let go and not suppress the feeling of “about to pee”. Exactly in this moment, the expulsion often occurs.

Training Effect – The more often a woman is able to squirt, the easier it becomes later. Some develop a kind of routine in which almost every orgasm ends in squirting.

Myths & Truth

“It’s just urine” – False. – While minimal amounts of urine can be present, the ejaculate comes mainly from the Skene’s glands.

“Only a few women can do it” – Half true. – Many women are physically capable, but need the right technique and the trust to let go.

“It’s embarrassing” – Quite the opposite. – In the fetish world it is a celebrated highlight, a sign of intensity and devotion.

Squirting in BDSM & Fetish

Especially in the kinky scene, squirting has a special significance. It is more than an orgasm – it is a symbol of power, surrender and ecstasy without limits.

Loss of Control as Source of Pleasure – For submissive partners, squirting means an extreme form of being delivered, because the body reacts in a way that can no longer be controlled.

Proof of Power for the Dominant Part – Whoever manages to trigger squirting demonstrates skill, control and assertiveness.

“Everything Gets Wet” Fetish – Many couples find it especially arousing when mattress, sofa or even the floor are flooded. For some, the resulting wetness itself becomes a fetish – the more fluid, the better.

Exhibitionism & Pornography – In films and live sessions, squirting is often staged as a spectacle that captivates both the audience and partners.

Conclusion

Squirting is no myth, but a unique experience that goes far beyond a normal orgasm. It unites physical ecstasy with psychological liberation, breaking taboos and an incomparable visual intensity.

For many men, it is often the ultimate proof that they have pushed their partner to her limits and beyond – visible, wet and unforgettable.